The Seeming Chaos of the Transition of Death

Insane Selfie

As loved ones get ready to transition from the physical plane to turn in their soul cases and to let their Spirit shine as they go home, chaos ensues. Let the pity parties begin and let's roll out the insanity program with the Self^3 (Self to the third power) combo. You know the insanity programs with the self-punishment, self-limitation, and self-destruction trio with its infinite permutations? Smile for the camera, we’re prepping for an insane selfie.

Unresolved issues float to the surface, emotions run high, denial (the most primitive and overused form of mental mechanism which makes you want to shake the person in denial and yell, wake up already before you crash and burn!), familial squabbles over time care schedules, money and ego ensue. Skeletons come flying out of the closet that don't belong to you and you duck lest you get God smacked for intervening without permission. You cannot deny someone a lesson they need to learn. Timber!

There are those whose issues were not in order, transform into the worse possible versions of themselves; Chaos 2.0. There are others that face everything and rise to the top and assume the lead role in the drama. Thank goodness for their proactive neutralizing personage, Amen. All the while the insane selfie pyrotechnic shit show hits the proverbial fan despite the fact that the transitioner is trying to find the peace within to begin its new journey. At this time it is crucial to get a support system in place for the living and the transitioning. Having these in place does not mean that you will not feel the pain of loss or heartbreak, but it makes for a smoother transition in lieu of the pyrotechnic show.

Getting Help Here are some suggestions:

• Calling in the crew, yes we all have a crew. Start with the Ascended Hosts of Light & the Angelic Hosts of Light they will point you in the right direction.  
• Bereavement Counseling  
• Spiritual Counseling  
• Speak to sane Friends & family members  
• Tibetan rites of passage  
• Other rites of passage that include the living and the transitioning  
• Writing  
• All of the above; is how I deal with transitions

Modern Culture

Unfortunately, our modern cultures do not deal with death well or at all. We have forgotten our connection to Mother Earth, Mother Gaia and to Source of all there is; God. In fact, modern culture does not instruct us how to live and thrive. If that were the case, it would be clear that death is not the end, but a transition and a new journey into higher levels of consciousness. We do not simply, go poof, and cease to exist. We return to the realm of Spirit. If we transition well, meaning we don't hang out on the Earth plane or get stuck in the astral planes of existence, it is the end of our human suffering and suffering in general.

Would you like some wine and cheese?

Don’t worry about those who don't transition well, they will eventually be corralled by a Lightworker who will send them to the appropriate place for their evolution or send to someone who can. Yes, this is where every conscious Light Being/ Light Worker rolls their eyes, bitches and moans to me about entities and why poor me. The hitchhikers won't leave me be; Waaaa! Would you like some cheese with that whine?  Of course you, you’re the conscience one, the Lightbulb in the room. Set up some clear boundaries. When you establish yourself as the Invincible Guard in and around your domain nobody gets hurt. Who else are they going to go to when the missed the Light Train? You will send them to the right and perfect place or to the person who can or call me: sigh. Don’t you remember who you and I were in a bygone era that pesky discarnate that missed the Light Train, that was drawn to others Light and began to tug on their sleeves, cause electrical interference, play peek-a-boo or hang out in there closet? Sounding familiar? This is part of your job description, yes in the fine print. Take a look, its there. So you are just going to have to grow a pair and drink from the waters of compassion and call on Archangel Michael & Lady Quan Yin!

A Brief Education in Oneness

Whether you know it or not, or like it or not, it we are all ONE and sooner or later you will surrender to Divine Will. It’s just a matter of lifetimes. It's just so much easier. Don't you want to enjoy your Earth plane stay, evolve and do the right thing? Want to avoid that sinking feeling that you're done this before and it did not end well? Then get cracking! Surrender in small ways, for example: ask for Divine intervention on your behalf starting this Monday. When you actually accept the help, you will realize, hmm, not so bad, not so bad indeed. I will give this another go. Then try week two and repeat.

Karmic review Board: Yes It Exists  

There is an educational process once a soul or being has crossed into the realm of Spirit. They will have their personal judgement and review with the Karmic review board, to determine whether or not they are required to reincarnate again or if they can remain in the realm of Spirit. This is an over simplification, but you get the point. In order to be released from the wheel of incarnation, a soul would have to attain a certain level of soul consciousness. If the soul remains in the realm of Spirit it doesn't mean they are on an eternal cruise ship like the Love Boat. They hold an office in Spirit; for example as someone's guide, on a Medical Assistance Team, a teacher, healer etc. When the transitioner is ready and if they have permission, they are often placed to work with their loved ones in the physical. The most common of these are the dream sequence guides where your parent, grandparent, sibling or child conveys important information, warning or just simply lets you know that they are well and you are always loved. Often I am asked, why a person has not felt their loved one, they feel as if they're really gone. After a loved one has transitioned well, meaning they are in the right and perfect place, typically within three days, they need to move on, but they will eventually pay us visits at the appropriate time. As we replace our grief with love we will be able to feel, hear, smell or sense them. There are times that they communicate with other friends or family members when we are not ready to receive the information from them.

Transition Team

What seems to be chaos as an individual begins its transition process is really a well-orchestrated transitional team, like a well-oiled machine, that not only assists the transitioner, but also assists the love ones who are left behind. In this past year we have witnessed many transitions, human as well as animal companion. Sensing and seeing their transitional teams has been incredibly comforting to me to know the Elohim, Ascended Host of Light and Angel Hosts of Light, and other beings of Light that have assisted. My reaction was the same, all I could say was: "I’m in awe, how beautiful and wow they have some crew!” It gives me great joy and comfort when they are clear and at peace. They are the most radiant, glowing versions of themselves that I have ever seen as they move on.

Divine Order

As we prepare for our loved one to transition and experience the ensuing insanity from those around us, I AM without doubt and 100% certainty that we are being guided, handheld, carried and bopped over the head if need be, but we are never, ever left alone.

As the universe would have it, I received an email today from A Tree Instead, http://www.atreeinstead.com.  It has been years since I have used their service. Memorial trees can be planted in a loved one’s honor. The timing of this email is a message letting us know that our loved one would be transitioning soon. Our loved one loves trees and nature and this would be a fitting way to honor them. We are never left in the dark. During periods of great transition in our lives we are always given signs: some subtle and some obvious. We just need to have an open heart to receive them. Grief can open up new channels of awareness that assist in our evolution. This is a reminder that all is in Divine Order always; even for you, even for me, even for us all.

Infinite blessings!

Yours in Truth & Light